Improving your SEX Pleasure !!!

C. Madrid 2012

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Why is Sex so important?

Maybe sex is the trick that nature uses to keep our genes alive forever. If this were true, then we are living like slaves to our genes although they provide us with pleasure as a reward at the same time. This would be the contract therefore that we signed when we were born. Bearing this in mind, what is most important is to take advantage of this situation. Several cultures have been searching for the best way in which we can improve our sexual pleasure, and maybe the most interesting work was “The Kama sutra” which is an ancient Indian Hindu text widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behaviour in Sanskrit literature, written by Vātsyāyana. A portion of the work consists of practical advice on sexual intercourse. But I would like to share with you a couple of things I found out recently that can help you easily improve your sexual pleasure.

The position of the head, not the head position

If you think about where the most important part of your body is when you are having sex, don’t focus on your genital area. Scientists have demonstrated that everything happens in our nervous system and our brain is the principle organ. So if you want to improve your sexual pleasure you better pay attention to what goes on with it. What is most important is for the blood to manifest itself in your brain and maintain this high concentration throughout the act, as this will increase the oxygen and sugar supply to this particular area. The way to do it is so simple; just try to put your head in the position below your heart. You can try lying down in a slanted position by placing your pillow below your feet. You can also let you head fall back over the edge of the bed. I taught this to a very good friend of mine and he confirmed to me that this strategy works. He started to use different positions without explaining anything to his wife because he didn’t want to argue about who would benefit from the new position of the head. But he recently confessed to me that in the end he explained the new trick to his wife, and now she is the only one who benefits from it. I said to my friend that I was very sorry but he told me that it didn´t matter because they had increased the number of acts from one to three per week. So in the end it turns out that for my friend quantity is better than quality.

The mission not the missionary position

The physiological strategy I have written about is so simple and evident. Now I am going to explain something that I recently found out. I was working as a pro bono consultant with an NGO and I needed to read a lot about this particular sector. One day I happened to encounter a scientific trial called “Theory of solidarity”. This is a recent trial which attempts to understand the reason why people work as volunteers or why people make donations to NGOs. The investigators discovered that the main reason was because of happiness or pleasure. They also studied the score of pleasure that people receive by doing different things, like having sex. They divided into two groups those that work as volunteers and those that do not. The result showed that people that work as volunteers for NGOs get more pleasure out of sexual experiences than others. I don’t why I couldn’t stop my work as a volunteer even though I had a lot of work and things to do. So by working as a volunteer or making a donation, what is most important in the time being is a simple way to increase your sexual pleasure. So instead make love and not war, what was a popular exclamation in the 70’s, now we can say help others and enjoy your sex.